Cook for her! I don’t know what it is, but there is just something about a man who can cook and clean that gets my fire going. Granted, I don’t want a man to clean my house and do all my chores, but I guarantee you, at least for this woman, a man who is not afraid to or too lazy to pitch in and help around the house will really increase my intimacy meter.

However, what I’m talking about here is actually taking the time to cook her a homemade meal. It’s okay if you don’t know how to cook. You can buy a lot of pre-cooked or pre-packaged meals or foods from the supermarket to help you along, and you can use the internet for recipe and easy meal ideas. It doesn’t have to be a gourmet meal, it just has to be something YOU made for HER.

Then, when the meal is complete, don’t let her lift a finger to help with the clean up! Make it her night, where she doesn’t have to worry about a single thing – no making dinner, no clearing the table, no cleaning the stove, no washing dishes. You see, the meal will not mean as much if you leave her with all the clean up after.

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