I wanted to continue from my last post. I really think that some of the issues that we have in our relationship is that we men and women of today do not have defined roles in a relationship. This is something that men and women from back in the day practice and which probably made the marriage easier. I know that times have changed and to ask a woman to be barefoot and pregnant probably will not work. At the same time you can define your roles.
Women, you can “Control” everything that happens inside the house. This does not mean you have to do even single thing but it can be your responsibility to make sure it happens. Let’s be clear a man is looking for a woman that wants to cook and clean more than him or that is willing to. I am sorry that is what most men want. I think if you delegate some of the duties to your man from time to time he will handle it. Most guys I know do not have a problem help with the household duties.
Men, you should “Control” the household finances, outside household duties, and fix me up projects around the house. Once again this does not mean that you cannot get help from your woman but be a man and get off your butt. Stop letting your woman do everything and wondering why she is always complaining about you not being a man.
Just like a job if your role is not defined you will have issues trying to understand what is needed from you. So if you define your role there is no questions of where you should be and what is needed of you. Once again what do I know I never been married!
Remember to Keep it GC,