With all the music out talking about a Bad Girl men can fall into this stupid trap of thinking a bad girl is what you want or need. Ok I will admit that “I Need a Bad Girl” is one of my favorite songs by Usher. I was listening to it today on Pandora as a matter of fact. The question is do I really want a bad girl? What does a bad girl do for me? I will tell you sexually she is probably everything that I want her to be. She is edgy and she doesn’t take any mess. It is different from nagging though. It is hard to put your finger on it. It is just an attraction that you cannot explain. But on the flip side that is all that it is an attraction.
If you wonder why you cannot make it with a Bad Girl fellows it is because she does not want to be kept dummy. She is always looking for the next best thing, which means when it comes around she is out and you will be left heartbroken.
Men are very visual when it comes to picking a mate, but you have to make sure that is not the only reason that you are with your lady. Do you want a trophy, or someone that will take care of your kids and your household? Men are so predictable I know what you are thinking I want both. Yeah I want it all too. But the question is what is more important? What are you standards? We need to do better. Truth is a woman that is down for you will do all of those extra things that you request (in reason of course). Listening to all this music that is being made today in killing our minds fellows. There is no love anymore it is all about lust and how I can take you on a shopping spree. Stop pointing fingers and start looking at yourself in the mirror. It is time for a change. It starts with us.
We need to get back to setting the standards in our relationships. Build that relationship with a woman so she can develop into your “Bad Girl”. You 30 years old and still only worried about the physical aspect of the relationship get a life (you wondering why you divorce after two years). Stimulate your mind a little because when you are 65 sitting on the porch with your wife talking and the way she takes care of you will make her so sexy.
Look for your best friend! Stop chasing one night stands. If this is what you are subconsciously chasing don’t get mad when you get played.
Remember to keep it GC,