I know that everyone makes mistakes, but to not even be 30 years old and you have already been married and divorced is crazy. What is going on? Do people marry because this is the person they want to be with or do they marry for the sake of being married?
I really feel sorry for my generation because we are selfish in a relationship. We only think of ourselves and what a person can do for us in the relationship. We have to be selfless in our relationship period. Sometimes you have to love your spouse even when they do not deserve to be loved.
People need to learn the person that they are dating. I know that you will not completely know a person but you can learn and understand different things before marriage even happens. People will give you there resume all day but it is when you are not asking questions when you really learn. Watch and see how they react in certain situation. How are they with their family? What are their passions? What motivates them? What makes them happy? How do they treat you when they are upset?
I have dated girls in my past and they could not tell me what my favorite color was or my favorite food. That is simple stuff. I learned a long time ago that it is not about looks or the resume that they put in your face, because that only gets you through the door. It is going to take a lot more than that to get a ring. Hey what do I know I never been married before!
Remember to Keep it GC,