As a man I find myself struggling with my romantic relationships. I understand that times are different, but I still find myself wanting to be the man in my relationship as the men I grew up respecting and admiring in their relationships. It is hard being the man in your relationship with women of today, so you think.
I will never stop opening doors, holding hands, or protecting the woman that I am dating no matter how independent she claims to be. I don’t know how to be any other way. There will be a time when a woman will expect you to be a man and you will find yourself struggling to be the man she wants you to be. It is like a mind game do I lead or do I not. You lead until it is time for you to let her lead. It’s just that plain and simple.
Listen as a man I am here to tell you that if your woman believes in you, then she will listen and follow you. We were put on this earth to raise and lead our families in the direction they’re supposed to go. This concept has gotten away from us, because there are so many women raising their children without the fathers in the household. Women are not seeing a strong male figure on a day to day basis. They do see that strong mother figure taking care of them and doing everything that they can to make sure that they were able to have a good life.
Men we have to stop leading from the back. When it comes to dating we hold the key. A woman is going to follow you if you are handling your business and being the leader you supposed to be. If she does not then it is time to let her go and find that guy she is willing to follow. Take responsibility for your relationships, because when it comes down to it, if it does not work out it is going to be your fault. You are the CEO. Act like it. If it is successful you are going to get the praise as being a great man. If it doesn’t you are a slimball.
Start by setting the foundation that you want. Be upfront with what you want and what you are looking for. Stop waiting for the woman to set the foundation. As men we will hold back our feeling of how we feel about our woman because we do not want it to make us look weak. That is your first mistake right there. Put yourself out there. Real man make the blueprint for their relationship.
Remember to keep it GC,