I was watching Dr. Phil and Terrell Owens and his baby mothers were the guests. I could not believe that he had 4 children by 4 different women. As a man how do you let this happen? You have one that is fine ok I might even give you two but more than that what are you thinking. You are paying $50,000 a month in child support. I don’t think I have to do the math for you but I can – that is $600,000 a year in child support. On top of this you are broke! (I will save that for another day.) Why are you not being a father to your children? I am sorry but the excuse that I never had my father so I don’t know how to be one is played! How about you give your child what you wanted growing up? There were things that I wish I did with my father. Guess what, when I have children I am going to do it.
Men need to be there for their kids. There is only so much that a mother can do. I believe that men get their daughters ready for relationships. Not only can they detect the BS better when their father has an active role in their life, but they also tend to know that we as men do stupid things sometimes. I will admit it. I know that I do. I cannot even explain it sometimes. It makes perfect sense when I am doing it.
There is no one that can teach a man how to be a man better than a man himself. Fathers need to be there for their sons. You will be the biggest influence on their life. You are the one that they look at and want to be like, walk like, and talk like. As a man I am tired of the excuses. Talks to him about how he should treat women, better yet show him.
Now ladies you are not going to get off that easy. How do you have a child with a man that has 4 different kids by 4 different women? Where are your standards? Where are the condoms? Don’t you know that you are going to be number 5? Women you have to take some responsibility in this as well. You knew his track record and what it had shown to date. There is nothing special about you when it comes to men like this. They take what they can get period and move to the next. They are like vultures waiting on you to fall. Stop falling prey to these dead beat men!!!
Always remember to keep it GC