Accept her emotions – let her cry! Women cry, and sometimes we do it for no reason at all. This is something men just don’t understand, and that’s okay. You don’t have to understand, but don’t ever make her feel bad for being emotional or crying.
Most of the time, it will not be your fault she is crying, and sometimes, tears are because she is happy. I know it can be confusing for you guys to know the difference, but don’t automatically assume that if she is crying you have done something wrong. Allow her feelings, and don’t feel you have to DO anything except put your arms around her and make her feel safe and protected until the tears pass.
A woman will tend to feel safe with a man who simple allows her to feel emotions and express those outwardly with no fear of recrimination or accusation when she is emotional. Men, you don’t have to understand it, just accept that’s the way it is, and you’ll do just fine.
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